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What inspired you to become a Mistress?
I have always been a Dominate personality. I can recall a scene
while playing on the play ground in 3rd grade. I was the ruler of the
‘big toy’ with a few of the other 3rd grade girls. For boys that
wanted to challenge us, I would use some good old fashioned CBT to knock the
boys down and keep them from coming back. A little grabbing, pulling and
twisting usually did the trick. Yes, there were the boys that did not want to
return to meet my challenge. And then there were others…they came back, often.
If I were to see them today, I am certain they would be my clients, earned so
many years ago! However, it was the lovely Boss who recognized that I am
Dominant and introduced me to a way to express my Dominant side. Forever
grateful to the Boss!! I am a verbal fanatic. I love to humiliate and have found that I can come up with some of the sharpest humor. I am also the resident spanker. Spank, spank, spank away. I have spent energy, in the past, attempting to attract other kinds of players to me by catering my site in other directions. I must just natural emit spanker vibes because even with extensive bondage photos and stories, I still only got calls for discipline sessions. Too funny! Recently, I left a place where I was training for my ‘day job’ and a client stated that I was a natural disciplinarian and that was a benefit for them. Now, mind you, I did not touch one person or use any type of scene related language. As I stated, I must just emit those disciplinarian vibes!
With all of that said…My favorite scenes are role-play,
discipline, and oral commands and humiliation.
Sincerity, is there anything else to look for? I do very well at adaptation. I am a jack of all trades and Mistress of some. Likewise, I am well in tune with who I was, who I am and who I am becoming. This is the gift that fosters adaptation. As much as I do not like change, like most human beings, I do my best to embrace it and move forward with it.
As a conqueror, well that one is most easily defined, I have my
own limits and boundaries and they are well defined. I will consider redefining
them with ample time to self-explore and make the changes necessary. People, not
just men, are attracted to my personal respect. In most cases, this is what
repulses unhealthy people from me and makes them want what I have at the same
time. For healthy people, they just like to hang out with me. So being a
conqueror is a gift bestowed from others, it is not something one can just take.
Most times, men underestimate that a woman is capable of being
strong and self-sufficient, while being soft and needing affection. I believe it
is contradictory to the women they man have seen growing up. I am a woman that
wants a man to be a man without being chauvinistic and rude. Just be strong and
sensitive and I will be the same.
Ha! Must I go there?
I believe it has progressed in a positive direction in that most
people have many choices in order to express themselves and work through any
shame associated with kink. Likewise, there is a negative side to all of this.
The open type of community the internet has provided has cheapened potentially
good experience for newbies and experienced people, a like.
Nope, they are just people and are not worthy of my praise or
worship.
We are back to my response from above…People admire my boundaries
and limits. I believe I have also been told that people admire the fact that I
know who I am. Yes, I do, to the best of ability, today. But then again,
tomorrow, I will have to get to know myself all over again! It is a full time
job being your own best friend!
I have worked very hard over the course of the past 6 years at my
education. I am licensed and a respected member of my community. I will soon be
a published author and a doctor. I help many people, in and out of scene, accept
who they are and find their purpose. I am so multi-gifted and desire to apply
that to as many areas of my life as possible.
I am an artist, a painter. Give me anything to create on and I
will make it a piece that you will treasure. I am a teacher; give me your mind
and I will bend it, explore it, and expand it. I am a healer; give me your
emotions and we will knit them together.
Being as one with nature; experiencing God’s creation, fully.
Meeting the love of my life and living all the time I had with that one person. The first wish would be to have unlimited amounts of money. Why? Not to buy things or do things with it. I would volunteer all of my time and talents to people that could use my help and I could do it without worrying about the bills. The second wish would be to have the partner I love be available to me and work in life toward a common goal.
The third wish would be to have body that did not need so much
care. The human body is like a chain, it needs so much time and care that it
eats into my productive day. Yes, I am off on another adventure. I have begun to explore a new side of the adult industry and I am hoping to find men that want to explore it with me too! Email me privately if you want to consider going in the same direction. You can find this posted at: http://domboss.com/messageboard/ubbthreads.php?ubb=showthreaded&Number=2930&page=1#Post2930 |